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CONSUMED BY THE UNTHINKABLE: MAKE FIRE’S “MEMORIES” CONFRONTS THE PAIN OF LOSING THE ONE WHO HELD YOU TOGETHER

Monday September 8, 2025 by That Chick Krys

Have you ever lost a loved one you considered your rock and sacrificed parts of your life to keep them around, just to lose them anyway? Whether it happened too soon or just felt that way, you’re left with a hole no one else can fill. Helpless. Angry. Alone, even in a crowded room. Searching for something (anything) to make sense of the pain. If you’re looking for a song that doesn’t just understand but puts your experience into the words you couldn’t find, Chicago’s Make Fire delivers exactly that with “Memories.”

“Memories” hits like a confession and a battle cry in the same breath, built for anyone who’s ever watched their anchor slip away, whether to disease, addiction, or betrayal. Make Fire’s gift is their ability to channel pain into an anthem, writing songs that don’t just skim the surface but dig deep, right to the marrow.

The lyrics of Memories are devastating and relatable, but what’s most striking is their openness to interpretation. Is it about losing someone to Alzheimer’s or cancer, watching as the person you knew is slowly erased? Is it the heartbreak of loving someone who’s consumed by addiction, who grows unrecognizable, leaving you stranded in their absence? Or maybe it’s the fallout of a relationship, where betrayal or toxicity turns your once-solid foundation into a ghost town, as if Memories were a sequel to Make Fire’s previous single, Ghost.” The monster in the song could be any of these, and that’s the genius of lyrics crafted with haunting ambiguity. Make Fire gives you a vessel for your own story, letting you find your pain inside theirs.

“Memories” doesn’t just touch on the pain of loss but walks you through every brutal step of the grieving process. As the song progresses, the lyrics, vocals and musical delivery echo the five stages of grief so vividly you can almost feel yourself moving between them. There’s denial in the hope that someday your loved one might come home, that maybe all of this isn’t real. Anger pulses through the realization that something monstrous has taken them, leaving you powerless and furious at the unfairness of it all. The bargaining comes in the desperate lines where you’d give up anything – “all I love” – just to keep them around. Depression is woven through the verses, in the emptiness, the loneliness, and the suffocating ache of life without them. And, finally, as the song closes, there’s a quiet acceptance, a solemn vow to keep their memory alive even as you let them go. Make Fire manages to capture the full, messy heartbreak of grief, turning every stage into a raw but ultimately cathartic anthem.

Make Fire, photo by: Kaylee's Canvas
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Make Fire’s musicianship is what lifts “Memories” from gut-wrenching to unforgettable. Max Carrillo’s guitar is both a weapon and a wound, searing through the track with technical brilliance and a rawness that feels lived-in. Sabastian Neudeck’s drums are the heartbeat of the song, relentless and perfectly controlled, pounding out the anxiety and sorrow that drive the lyrics. Joel Seidlitz’s bass is the quiet strength beneath the chaos, giving the song its emotional weight. Al Herda’s vocals inhabit the lyrics, his voice cracking and soaring in the places you need it most. Make Fire is one of those bands that  together, they create the definition of art.

The band’s backstory only adds to the intensity. Their roots run deep in the Midwest scene, but their true spark was ignited in Mexico City, where Max nearly died from altitude sickness at the tail end of playing a set at Hell & Heaven Fest. Left with just one working lung, he doubled down on his passion, writing a song a day for a month and pouring every ounce of pain and survival into Make Fire’s DNA. This isn’t just a band playing at being vulnerable – they’ve lived these moments, and the authenticity bleeds through every note.

The production is top-tier but never suffocates the song’s heart. With Evan Frederiksen handling engineering, mixing, and mastering, and Jae Sims as vocal producer, every element is given its space to shine. The music video, directed by J.T. Ibanez and starring John Mefford and Tabitha Rae Seidlitz, is cinematic and haunting, a visual echo of the song’s theme.

After Make Fire shared a TikTok post with the caption, “If you’ve ever lost someone to Alzheimer’s,” the comments lit up with emotional stories from listeners – caregivers, family members, people who’ve stood exactly where the song stands, whether recently or decades ago. That connection is what music is for, and it’s why “Memories” is important.

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Make Fire, photo by: Kaylee's Canvas

A few hours after I first listened (and, yes, bawled my eyes out for longer than I’d like to admit), I received two nearly back-to-back messages from loved ones telling me they lost family members earlier that day. It took me a while to pull myself together and write this review – the song hit that hard. I get hundreds of music submissions a week and very few move me to tears. Even fewer stay with me afterward. Make Fire’s “Memories” is one of those songs. It’s not just about loss but also what comes after, and the power of holding on, even when everything else slips away.

If you need proof that hard rock can be as nuanced, poetic, and soul-baring as any genre out there, look no further. Make Fire has written a song for everyone who’s ever felt lost, and in doing so, created a new kind of map for finding your way back.

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“Ghost” has been added to the Hypernova Radio rotation, as well as my “Heavy,”  “Hypernova Radio – New Adds,” and Wanderlust”  playlists on Spotify!

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